Patience my a$$-I want specific answers!!!!!!!

[Lostforwords]

At the same time, I believe we are judged against OUR capabilities. Not our neighbors, just our own, and that it will be fair

We are our most critical judge when we take the time to do it....it is just easier to judge others...so that is were most people end up.

Best of intentions get us nowhere, it's in the DOING that makes the difference.

Very true!

when in reality they are the only ones who can do such.

Just as we are the only ones who can help ourselves.