Moving on with my life!

[silverado]

NOT hyphenated
according to Websters.
definition (usually vulgar) : a stupid or contemptible person

[Startingover2]

NOT hyphenated
according to Websters.
definition (usually vulgar) : a stupid or contemptible person

Is my exh's name next to that definition?

[smith18]

Once when I was a kid, my baby brother plopped out a floater while we were taking a bath. I called him a "pig dink" and promptly got my mouth washed out with soap by my momma.

You have my copyright permission to refer to your X as either a "Drunken Dickhead" or a "Pig Dink".

[Startingover2]

Once when I was a kid, my baby brother plopped out a floater while we were taking a bath. I called him a "pig dink" and promptly got my mouth washed out with soap by my momma.

You have my copyright permission to refer to your X as either a "Drunken Dickhead" or a "Pig Dink".

HAHA!! Perfect! Exh's name in my phone is now Pig Dink!!

[bright_new_day]

I would love to put something like that in my phone, but my kids see it when it rings.

[25yearsmlc]

when I first met my h, his parents had divorced a year or so before and I never knew his dad's real name b/c my mil would always always refer to him as "That #$%&" and honestly, I had no idea what his actual name was until the day I met him at which point I called him "Mr H"...and he said his first name...and then my mind went blank...sure, I knew what NOT to call him, but geez, after a glass or two of wine it almost slipped out...!!

As for the phone ID...well, I do think a particular ring assignment can be 'helpful' and discreet. Perhaps An annoying buzzer?? SIren?? OR better yet a hilariously pleasant heavenly tune as if an ANGEL Is calling you (Or God is testing you??) when the WAS is on and you need to skip to answer it...oh, we need to be creative.

S2, some "oldtimers" here used to say that we all needed to get the popcorn out, a nice drink for us, sunglasses of course, and learn to sit on the curb "for the parade of the MLCer" to go by so we can watch the spiraling downwards into the drain, often with OPs in tow, or new kids or new attempted families....or worse...OR we can witness them flaming out in a nice big fireworks display...point is, we have no control over THEM, so we have to enjoy OUR lives and make the best of it and not worry about where the parade goes b/c we sure don't know their parade route, we just know we want to remain spectators, not participants...
I like popcorn...always have. And I like parades, margaritas, AND hey, I LOVE fireworks too, come to think of it.

j-

[Startingover2]

I am getting further and further from his life and as much as I love it, he is resisting. The calls instead of texts are more frequent and I really do like the texts

So yesterday his d15 had an out of town track meet. I knew it and obviously didn't expect him , but exh didn't call until it was actually his visit time. I ignored the call. It would have been fine to just send a text. He didn't leave a message. Then my d15, who goes to school in the area of the track meet, called and said she was there watching a friends sister and exh and his exw1 and all of her family were there. She chatted with him. Exh called my phone again but I didn't answer. No message again. Then last night he called again! I finally answered and he said "about time you answer your GD phone!" I said calmly "Please do not speak to me that way or I will not answer from now on." He went on to tell me he called 50 times...and I said no..you called twice and left no message. He said he was going to tell me his d15 had a track meet. I said well that could have been left on a message. He went on to ask how baby was etc. and ask if he could come by today and see her (nonvisit). I said Friday is your visit day...see you then. I then quickly asked how his d15 did and he told me. Congratulations and I really gotta go!

Another funny thing was my son was on his FB and became a fan of "I love my mother because she does everything for me". I am sure he was being partially sarcastic, but I added that I 'liked' it. My son came in last night and said that exh must have seen that and commented "kiss a**". I know exh was just being sarcastic with s16 and that is fine, but what was really funny was s16 said he went to exh's profile and exh had erased that comment from his own profile...probably so MGF can't see he commented on my sons stuff. My son chuckled and said exh must hate that I have a good relationship with my kids as his is such crap.

My house is being taken over by toys. Going to go through them and get rid of the really baby stuff. Pay bills ...oh and get my teeth cleaned. YUCK!

I like the popcorn and margarita version better 25!!

[25yearsmlc]

exactly....I like the margaritas with salt or without, depending on the weather outside. Oh, I've tried a shot of peach schnapps added to a blender when we make the batch, to balance out a little of the tartness--a San Antonio tip.

j-

[Startingover2]

Quiet day yesterday as far as exh was concerned...I was waiting for him to ask to see baby after work but he just sent one text saying he will see her Friday after work. No asking how she was..nothing. Must have been having a day.

I have been racking my brain trying to figure out how to earn more money in a few months. I will be done with my course, but most likely will not make enough to make ends meet. My mom will help, but its always stressful asking and I don't want her to feel like she has to. I thought about watching kids, but I have a pool and most parents didn't like that too much when I tried before. No, I cannot sell my house as I would lose hundreds of thousands of dollars in this market. I have been advised to wait it out as long as I can. Rent rooms? Definately not my favorite idea...in fact I hate it, but I have 1 spare room now and maybe in a year I will have another when d18 moves out. I guess its an option.

[Startingover2]

Ok, just saw that large threads aren't good for the board so I will start another one!

New thread:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1952165&#Post1952165