Both are happily married to their 3rd husbands....
That is all good advice NM but you need to look after you and all this time, even with the GALing I don't think you've been doing that.
All of those comments are looking at what he is thinking, what he is doing and what he is wanting. You need to switch that off and starting looking at what YOU are thinking, what YOU are doing and what YOU are wanting.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"