Am I in the right place? Need advice and support.

[Clife]

Hi OTM, well the paintballing is out in the fields, lots of trees and sooooo much mud, but im sort of looking forward to it. We have some wonderful, supportive friends and we do enjoy spending time with them. This is for our friends daughters 16th birthday so lots to celebrate, whilst dodging 'bullets'!!

Thank-you rr22, i was enormously encouraged to read his reply. Just trying to keep things in perspective and keep to his timeline. I do appreciate what u wrote, more a few days after than immediately on reading. Altho it subconciously hit home immediately. Your 2x4 encouraged me to not give in to self pity and realise that HE needs to direct this relationship until he is ready to move forward.
Only then can we work on a new relationship, and make a better marriage. Once he has begun to heal.

Thank-you. x