Trytryagain I am catching up on your thread and look forward to seeing you turn into a success story! I hope you are having fun on your trip!
(I hope it is supposed to be a fun trip and not for a funeral or something- I need to read!)
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I am being bold here but let me say this- ADHD is NOT schizophrenia or multiple personality disorder. You can still tell the difference between right and wrong even when you have ADHD. My best friend in the world has ADHD and so do some family members. I have other experiences working with kids and adults with ADHD. It doesn't go away but people who have it are aware of the rules and how to treat people; even though it is AFTER they said or did something wrong! So my best friend does not repeatedly insult her husband/burn dinner/leave keys in her car/not finish helping her daughter with her homework...she MANAGES herself with routines and plans and intentions.

I really hope this isn't too offensive. I am just being honest and don't want you to excuse poor treatment because your H has ADHD.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004