Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

ok if you are the only one, I requested you! And sent you a message!

Well, am shaking off my friend's comment: Newmama, now you REALLY know where you stand if he didn't ask YOU to be with him for the biopsy! (where you need someone to drive you home)

And my aunt said "Sweetie, I just think that this happened so fast for WH and he has been with OW for almost a year now that of course he would ask her to help him.If he doesn't ask you, I think it's because he feels he doesn't deserve you. But it's how he will feel after this event that may make him reflect on what he wants- he just found out 2 days ago. Do you really think he would dump his girlfriend of 11 months overnight as soon as he learned he could have cancer?"

And my mom said "I have no doubt that he was facing his mortality and thinking about who he wants. Just remember, you can do whatever YOU want-it's your life and the best case scenario is that you look back on this 40 years from now, still together and call it the year from Hell. Worst case is, aside from my grandchild growing up in a broken home is that your heart was broken and you took a year of your life to not end your marriage or to date someone."

Both are happily married to their 3rd husbands....