Can someone please share their thoughts on my moving away with the kids, D7 and S5. I have mentioned it a few times and am just wondering if the NC with him is best. Right now, he has the best of both worlds while my kids are being hurt...and I know it will only get worse. Plus, he suggested it as though its best for us: This is what he said in an email to me 1 week ago:
I know you don't see it now but I have put a lot of thought into you going to California. Your home all day working all by yourself with no one here for you and with being divorced it just wouldn't be healthy for you or the kids. I truly believe as painful as it will be for me and the kids to separate, it will be the best and healthiest move for the both of you.
You need to be happy as well and for you and the children to be surrounded by family.
I don't want your life to be just about working and the kids. You need to also enjoy life and your family and friends will bring you joy. I can not anymore and my life will move on and I certainly don't want to cause you any more pain. You are an unbelievable woman and are really getting healthy all the way around and one day you will realize that me leaving is the best thing that could have ever happened to you and me.
Ugh.....
