Oh, HHH, I feel your pain. Thank you for sharing so honestly. All I can do is repeat what everyone tells me: it is process. Time and time and time.
And you have an exciting move to SF to make! That will help so much.
Re: packing stuff like wedding china. Can you have a friend do it, and then store it somewhere? If I were there, I would do it for you! It seems like a reasonable request to make of someone--maybe not the storing part, but help with packing.
I decided that part of my "move out" price would be (assuming it comes to that) a professional company to pack things. No way do I need the grief of wrapping pictures, etc. I realize that might not REALLY come true for me, in which case I will enlist friends. Can you do the same?
Peace--I so look forward to your first post from SF!
