"WHO You and your spouse: no kids, no pets, no laptops, etc. This is your weekend."
This was on the letter emailed to me. If you go to the online section that you log into with a password, you should find this info (I think)
I think it is fair to ASK, but it is up to her, I think. If she brings it, it is better than if she doesn't come.
I'm gonna guess your stones are just fine - maybe you've been kicked there a few too many times in the last year...if you had 100% sure evidence of an EA, my opinion is that you must say no to the laptop. Until then, do you think you could set that boundary without making her feel untrusted?
I've been exercising for a while - great stress relief and helps improve concentration (sorry...I'm a teacher...we're big on exercise!)
