I bought the book about Divorce Busting but at the end where it reads if they leave they may not come back.
That's also part of your journey to self awareness/self understanding; preparing for the worst, but hoping for the best.
There's always hope when you put all in the hands of the Lord who knows ALL things. Let go, let God do His work, wait and watch. Otherwise, work on YOU, take care of YOU..you're important, and people are depending on you, especially your precious little ones.
No one has any quick fixes for this, but we all have to walk the journey, one step at a time, one day at a time.
Keep reading, keep learning, ask questions...we can't do it for you, but the tools are provided to assist you.
Believe me, I have been there, my situation was not exactly the same, but I still understand the pain and suffering you're experiencing.
Will check in on you again.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.
