Curious...what should I be looking for in an attorney? I met with one last year and really liked her. She was recommened by a counselor at my church bc she has a very strong focus on children.

But, how do I know if she's the best for me? What should I try to "get?" I'll be honest, after everything H has done, I'm not looking to make this easy on him - & that's putting it nicely. Although I also don't want to be out of control and get super ugly. I want justice.


Me: 34
H: 34
DD: 3
M: 8 yrs
H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you"
PA Bomb: April 5, 2010