No longer "stuck808". Now my name is Bond. "MrBond

[MrBond]

cipa,

Sorry to hear about the job sitch. Things will look up.

As for your W, I can see you have alot of resentment for your W still. As one who has been in your shoes, I would say you have to find someway to deal with this because you do see her 50% of the time. I released alot of my anger and resentment awhile ago and actually took pity on my W. It made me alot stronger and I believe that's why when the OM showed up, I kind of laughed it off because to me he was insignificant.

I have to say it was good that he did show up because it made my W realize that her actions had consequences. She still won't admit blame though, but at least now I know it's because she's uncomfortable with it all. Well duh!

Funny thing is that when we're together, we get along great. She's just a bit messed up. I'm going to see her tonight with my Ds. I'm interested to see how things go.