Hey MrBond (That STILL feels weird....) :-)

Originally Posted By: MrBond
Did you find a job yet?


Still no job yet. I had a few phone screens and a couple of interviews but nothing solid yet. I have another phone screen tomorrow and one on Tues next week. I do have an interview next Thurs but it's 3 hours away so I'm not that enthusiastic about that one.

Thanks for asking

Originally Posted By: MrBond
That's what got us talking about things that make her uncomfortable. So in my case it really opened up something.


I hear ya brother. You know alot better than any of us here do as only you can read into her tone and voice inflections. I know I had a couple of conversations that seemed promising - not with respect to her changing her course, but more that she was at least thinking. But nothing came out of it other than more angst from having my hopes crushed. Guess I'm jaded now. Who nows. Just be careful. I know, as well as many here do, that we are all looking for that one glimmer of hope and how crushing it can be when it turns out to be a mirage. Just be careful....

Originally Posted By: MrBond
How often do you see your W?


Unfortunately I see her almost 50% of the time - when she has the boys but drops them off during the day so I can take them to school/babysit. She had a concussion just before V-Day (slip on ice) and we wound up having dinner together (the 4 of us) three times. For me, it was very painful, as I was just so irritated after seeing her each time.... cause where I'm at right now, everytime I see her, it just reminds me of how defiant she acts that everything is so much better because of what she's done.

Admittedly, it was easier for me when I was in NY when I rarely saw her. It was hard as I only saw my boys 2 nites a week. Now I see them almost 65% of the nites and almost 75% of the days. Guess you gotta take the good with the bad.

Crazily, she called me up earlier this week cause she knows allergy season is coming up and asked me if I wanted to use her discount to get claritin. Crazy.....

Sorry for the hijack, but you did ask ;-p

Now back to you..... hang in there bro! With or without her, you are a better man for it! Your daughters will greatly benefit from that. As well as you......

Take care


Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13