No problem. We've all gone through so much, but the stories are basically the same. I think both of our spouses are going through a MLC and it's said that the people who get hit by it the hardest are those with poor coping mechanisms. They don't like feeling "hurt" but rather than figuring out what that hurt is, they run away from what they believe is the source of it, namely the LBS.
For my W who kept saying she was looking forward to a new life, that she was happy, blah blah blah, she stays at home all the time, has really bad acne and seems to have aged since leaving.
I guess that's what it means to be happy!
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.