It was a good post and I am also glad you made it.
The one thing I would gently point is a big part of the reason many of us were so hard on you was due to the worry we felt.
For a long, long, long time you seemed so lost and sad. And sure, we all have felt lost and sad it just seemed you were on a different level. I can openly say I was very worried about you and your own personal safety.
walk away from the computer, put down the hand held, get away from everything that has anything to do with divorce or reminds you of what you are going through with your wife. find something healthy to be obsessed about.
a suggestion. each time you starting dwelling on your situation start doing pushups and situps until you start thinking of something else. you are either going to get very strong or very sick of depressing on your situation really quick.
SteveMcQueen "So I'll meet you at the bottom if there really is one They always told me when you hit it you'll know it But I've been falling so long it's like gravity's gone and I'm just floating"
My very first post from Steve on May 1st, 2009. Even then he was talking about situps and pushups, lol.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Thanks all. I'm good. Whatever happens, I will be fine. Just looking back through some of my old posts a bit ago I can see where wow, I was pretty bad off for a very long time.
Thanks for sticking by me.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
My background check cleared. Unemployment is kicking in for the dates of February 1st til March 15th. And W is looking to put a down payment on a place and move.
D8 got her glasses last night from the store. She can see at class now. Her teacher let us know they are great and D8 was very excited to be able to see the words on the wall.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
I just started a new thread based on his information! Is it not true?
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!