That's fine, you let her dance all she wants.. YOU keep STILL and dont' change your position...
I know you want HER to jump through some hoops, but TRUST me you do NOT want HER selecting teh family therapist
Ask mb28 about that one, she let her WS Husband find a therapist on his own... he picked one at random and heard ONE NEGATIVE comment and three days later he's at the lawyer filing for divorce....
I have said this before and I guess I will have to keep saying it
Selection of a QUALITY FAMILY THERAPIST is NOT something you leave with your WAYWARD SPOUSE to do... they will F'K it UP...
This is THE MOST DELICATE part of the process... YOur WS cannot select a FT to save their lives... they do NOT know what they are looknig for.. MWD has TONS of good advice on the subject...
If you want HER to go, YOU need to set an exmaple... if YOU act like a child, she will follow suit.. if you set an adult example, she MAY follow suit
It done'st always work when you act like an adult, but if you act like a child and wait for her to do the work she will respond like a CHILD EVERY TIME I guarantee it
