Stuck.... oops sorry... Bond.... wait, that doesn't sound right.... guess you'll always be my brother Stuck LOL
Anyway, reading through this thread, it brings flashbacks of the emotions of what had gone on in my situation.... now the OM never came to threaten me.... though I wished he would as I've seen a pic of him so I know it would have been a very short non-event..... but the emotions I'm talking about are what I've read into your thread.
I know it feels frustrating and dire, as sure as I know many people here feel as such. We all feel betrayed and "constantly punished for what she did...."
It's total crap.
I don't have much advice for you other than to echo what you have told me and others here countless times.
Continue to be strong and stand up for yourself and your daughters. The only person you can control is yourself. Stop trying to read minds.
Sorry for the miscelaneous ramblings, but reading your latest conversations and going ons had really brought back some rough emotions in me. You had really helped me through my really tough times.
Guess I was just really trying to say stay strong brother. I'm here for you (as well as countless others) and you and your daughters are in my prayers.
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13