Ok, the ring is back on, i'm not sure if she even noticed I had it off, but it's back on. I am going to still be ignoring her but be nice when she comes to me, it seems to work the best. I have been trying to mess up the affair ever since it started and her family is AGAINST her being with him but they accept its over with us.. they know I don't want the divorce. and even just tonight for the first time since the A my wife invited me to go out with her and the kids to get easter clothes. So thats where I am off to now
T-7 years, M-06/08/05 EA-Oct08 thru Jan09 PA-Jan 1st ILYBNILWY speech Jan 2nd Jan 4th-WS agreed to work on marriage Discovered A-Jan 14th exposed same day WS said IL w/OM and wants D Jan 20th
