I do not want Bworl's post to get lost in this. Trying not to step on it.
You ask what she is confused about.
You cannot possibly see what could be confusing to her.
You're right, you don't know. And you should be thankful for that.
You have a logical, ordered and structured mind. Be grateful.
She if she is in MLC, is questioning EVERYTHING in her life. EVERYTHING. Nothing is ordered any more, all is chaos all her choices all her decisions, everything is suspect.
My wife broke down when she tried to explain the confusion that was in her head. The confusion was so bad it hurt her.
So, you're right, you don't know. I don't know either, and I'm f-ing glad of it.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK