Lost, Because you are on an emotional rollercoaster, nothing makes sense and whenyou settle down from it, you become a bit lost....it's normal.
You have to remember that you are dealing w/an emotionally fragile individual who never had any self worth. You have to try to stroke them the best way you know how...thanking them, telling them you appreciate whatever good deed they've done. Heck, he might do back flips if you thank him for taking out the trash.
Try some of the suggestiions and see if his attitude changes any.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
