And FM, you are right- I was upset about the big C more than the procedure although my friend informed me they ask the men "do you want more children? If so, bank your sperm" So if they asked him that with OW there and if they had to do all the other explanation of the procedure with her there...it just sucks.
He was with me with my laparoscopy awhile back and of course with birth of our son.
I don't need to hear what an a-hole he is and how I am a doormat etc. etc. Sorry just need to express my thoughts! I am ready for some jokes again....MF?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004