you CAN stop her by telling HIM to stay away from her and getting your FRIENDS to watch them... AND his damn wife...
its called INFLUENCE... you exert as MUCH as you CAN on them to keep a DISTANCE... SHE may not listen toyou, but if HE knows he's being watched if HE knows his wife will turf his ass, and if he knows YOU are watching him... he may just tell her to keep away from him... it is called influence.
DO you have a lot of male friends? As a GROUP you pay a visit t his home and sit him down and tell him to LEAVE your WIFE ALONE... do NOT SPEAK with her...
If you get six big guys in his HOUSE pounding on his door telling him IN his WIFE's presence HUMILIATING him in PUBLIC to LEAVE your WIFE ALONE... he'll likely leave her alone...
its not just YOU, you need to get your posse together dude.
Never mind the phone... she can get her own service it don't matter.
STOP STOP STOP listening to what hse's SAYING righ tnow... MWD says in her FIRST PAGE of divorce remedy that your wpouse is giong to throw JUNK at you and to iGNORE IT.
No kids is ok, it means you are doin less damage to your home. you are NOT competing with this guy, this is YOUR wife and YOUR home... you tell him to BACK OFF and LEAVE her ALONE
You get EVERYONE you can to SUPPORT you in keeping a VERY CLOSE EYE on your wife ....do EVERYTHING you CAN to keep him away from your wife... you can't control your wife, but you can INFLUENCE HIM...
Does OM have kids?
Start campaigning his home, put up flyers all over his neighbourhood if you have to.... don't do anything without OMW's input though.. you don't want to tick her off