I was considering putting my ring back on, I think I will do that until everything is said and done.
Good idea... you need to send ONE and ONLY one message to your wife :
a. I'm in b. I'm out
the ring says I'm in...
You dont' have to be IN forever, but you DO need to be IN and explore that POST affair for at least six months before you decide if you are in or out.. you cannot judge that right now while everything is a mess...
You have a responsability to children and a wife that FAR TRANSCENDS how horrible you feel right now... and I HAVE been there .. I know it hurts..
