I am going to offer one more piece of advice.

Read this every day...

And become friends with the person who started this thread. You two are going to be going through this at the same time. And trust me on this. Friendships from the fire are very important.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1951092&page=1

Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul.
unconditional love is awesome!