I cannot stop her from going to work and communicating with the person. As of right now I strongly believe it is an emotional affair and hopefully I have stepped in just in time before it become something more. I am not sure how I can continue to get in the middle of the affair when now she has her own phone service and she could just technically just leave when she wants if I prevent her from doing so, it's controlling or restraining her and when I leave for work she can leave then and meet up.
I will do my best to just ignore everything about her right now and see how she comes around. We do not have children but we have a dog who we treat like a child and we both are attached too. She threw that in my face as well "You can have anything I just want the dog."
Today she has said "I want to sell the house" to "You can have the house" to "You can have anything you want just write it down I just want out."
I know what I've done in the past brought her to this point and I worked on me and then started to focus on us. Now not only am I fighting with the past and saving the marriage I am now battling the OM for her affection. For the past month besides talking to each other and going places together she has shut me out completely.
Last edited by OfficerInNeed; 03/04/1010:43 PM.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10
