I don't really have a name, but I know what you're talkin' about! (SHOCK)
It's funny, it's only recently I've even been able to speak out loud about the issues w/in my M. And, that was on the phone, and luckily, within a very welcoming, positive framework. I can't fathom speaking this stuff aloud to someone in person. I need help. I'm a freak!!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Mindfull, I still get that weird adrenaline response when I have to talk about my sitch - and I'm almost over it!!! I think its just hard to vocalize such a personal hurt! You are not alone my friend!!!
Oh - and I'm sure you would be guaranteed success with DBing CB!!!!
I still can't figure out what "name" you all are referring to!!
T
ME28,WAH30, M 5YRS, T 7YRS ,OW/ILYBNILY/SEP 9/09 Served with D papers 6/6/10 Current
Gosh!! I talked and talked and talked, nobody coudl shut me up! It saved me a fortune from going to therapy (I did and stopped when my C said she was looking forward to our apts cause I made her laugh,(impersonating H and his weakness to decide).I tried to charge her for the laughs but she didnt buy it-LOL) Only recently I stopped. Mainly cause I have nothing to say...
I do not dare tell any more people than I already have...which is few. I was at the house of one of those friends back in October and she had another friend over. We started drinking wine and the very end of the evening the friend of my friend asked "why are you separated?" Uhmm I just rambled and hedged and watched her face listen in horror+pity and that was the last new person (IRL) I told!!!
So, MF, I don't blame you, BUT it is terrific that there are the IRL friends that I can turn to!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
OK Talia- Avermont brought a male friend along to a town meeting that he X was attending.She had him pose as a date but she called him a "beard." I think Cutter wanted to know the nick name for a female poser...now does this make sense? sorta? lol
p.s. c bug I like fox, too- reminded me of "betty!"
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me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
