Fast track to her divorcing me

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Ignoring calls is not in my nature and she knows it. If I did it she would know something was up for sure LOL. So I guess I should do this. Hell our only Son does it to her himself and it irritates her. I have however stopped calling her. I am now grey. I let her call me first. This has been my tactic for about a month now and it appears to be working.

I understand what hpc is saying. And it could be true but my sitch is very much different than his. She is not exactly a catch but she is still attractive to me. She is 55 years old n ow and does not try to look atractive at all. She has pretty much convinced me that she has no interest in sex even when we were married. She is more of the romantic type. And yes I understand that she could have changed into a totally different person that I dont know. I dont see that as part of her new personality though.

Been searching for evidence of OM or OP for at least more than two months and never found anything except long conversations with friends from HS (male and female). But she did guard her laptop and cell phone like Ft. Knox so anything is possible.

At this point we are now divorced so there is nothing I can do about it either way.

I will be perfectly honest. I love her still. And I want her back. But I am at the crossroads now where I am tired of being treated like something disposable.

I am starting to see the benefits of detaching and I have recently felt what it is like to actually be respected and wanted by a woman. And it feels damn good. I have not felt that way in years.

Unfortunately my XW has no clue what she is throwing away and that I will not wait for her forever. This all reminds me of that old phrase: "Be careful what you wish for. You might just get it!"