LOL I agree, I too like taking care of someone but not in a dysfunctional way and looking back with some of Mark's issues I was enabling and dysfunctional. But my eyes were opened. But yes, as long as its reciprocated. Looking back I don't think I have ever had someone take care of me or do amazing things for me. It's hard because I sit and write these messages about someone who seems so foreign. He seems so pathetic, ridiculous, self absorbed, etc.....the first 10 years he wasn't this way in fact quite the opposite.
My H too was very mothered by his mom and still is. Don't think he will ever truly be independent due to her crippling in letting him mature.
