1. IGNORE your wife telling you the marriage is over... its meaningless... ask mb28 on here how many times her husband has tried to drive her away ... just IGNROE what your WIFE is TELLING YOU
2. I still don't trust OM... he isn't giong to be honest with his wife in teh room, sorry to say...
3. They may just be VERY good at looking professional at work
4. Your wife is showing ALL the signs of an affair taking place... physical or at LEAST an emotional affair
5. Never mind your wife right now, you spoiled her affair on her... sh'es NOT going to be NICE to you right now... you just need to suck it up and keep acting responsibly like you have been
6. Just learn to shut her OUT when she's being childish and ranting... it takes practice.. do NOT engage immature commentary.. IGNORE it.