If you didn't know your W was having an affair would you want someone to tell you if they knew.

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What I don't want to do is sabotage any hope I have by continuing to pursue her, and calling his wife is exactly that.


That is not pursuing.

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And she has NOT slept with him. She's been brutally honest with me, and I do believe her in this aspect. I truly believe what she needs is time and distance to consider her actions.


WHY do you believe her, why? Cheaters lie, period.

Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
S-9
D-6
D final 11/10/2009

"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."