Keep holding firm, no arguing, no crying, no pursuing.... its bringing him back... he WANTS to BAIT you into a fight so HE can file... dont' let him trick you.. its a Trap... ok?
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Ignore all his texts... just keep going about your business.. get giong on that family therapist... don't wait til he ASKS you for an appointment with a good one to start looking, look now so no time is wasted later...
When he wants to see a FT finally... you will need to have one ready on hand to get him in there... do a few sessions on your own first to make sure you are sending him to a good FT...
I totally agree
Call MWD's office to ask for a referral to someone in your area if you haven't already.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.