BIL (H's "cool" younger brother who's visiting H) just told about how he's having really good "long talks" with H. I just said "that's good that H is having a chance to talk" but I'm thinking "why is he telling me this?? doesn't he realize what I must be assuming about what they're talking about?". Then he told me about how H's apartment "needed some love" and how he rearranged H's couches (!?) and plants (!!). I just can't fathom H having plants. He always acted like he didn't give a sh1t about any home that he's had in the 17 years that I've known him. Now he's buying new sheets and plants.
BIL wants to "hang out" with me. How am I supposed to respond to him talking about stuff above? I want to play it cool with him and not put off "I'm so devastated that I can't even talk to you" vibes.
Last edited by flowmom; 03/04/1009:02 PM.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
