They are together. And you call the OM's wife and tell her.

Go read some of the active threads in the affair section.

Tough love needs to happen here.

Expose.

Lock finances.

Do not apologize for your actions.

Stop being her friend. She is sleeping with another man. When you need to contact her write this out on a piece of paper. It will make you stop.

Being her friend says. Hey I approve of this as I have no self respect. Each time you do this. You ruin your marriage even more.

You need to bust the affair first. Then you can start working busting the divorce.

Read this thread.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...749#Post1896749



Everything she says to you is a lie. And script.

So you have 2 choices here.

Choice 1 bust the affair with tough love and embrace the suck.

Choice 2 enable the affair with a complete lack of self respect.

You are a MAN.

Stand up. Deploy tough love. Expose. Do not let her know what your doing as you are a MAN. ACTIONS speak more than words.

And do not reply back that this may make her mad and be drawn to the other man.

CAUSE WHAT YOU HAVE DONE SO FAR HAS DONE THAT ALREADY.

And come here and get support and love from your fellow DB'ers

Any time you question what your doing... Ask for advice.

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