I've hit a wall.. Now what?

[talia]

Cbug - Normally I agree with you - and I've hesitated to say anything about OTM in general. Better to just ignore in general. I've just reached the end of my rope with that particular advice. I DO think there is bad advice and after a while it needs to be addressed. I think normally here anything bad adjusts as people experience the DB world and everything improves. I wouldn't have said anything if that was the case. I don't know if OTM has his heart in the right place - truthfully - I just don't think the advice is coming from a good place at all. Hence the call - everyone who helps will really be helping TTA and OTM. I'm hoping he will start to see that there is a process that works with DB and I sincerely hope he starts to implement the advice and solves his own situation. I think it would be wonderful for all of us to help him get to that point!!

The post is out of concern and love for both of them - WE ALL need support and advice that works!

T