Hi All. I think its time to give up. It doesn't matter how much I want to save our marriage if wife it determined to end it.

Late last night after work (10:30PM) wife stopped at my place for a visit (horrible job going dark I know). She said she wasn't staying but then fell asleep next to me in bed.

I know spending the night didn't mean anything, but when I woke up in the morning she was there, still sleeping by my side. Things felt normal for just a few seconds. Then my fog lifted and I was faced with reality again.

She left for work and then sent me a text message: "get those papers signed before you leave." She was referring to the marital dissolution agreement. I am leaving Saturday for a week long trip (for work).


Me: 45 WAW: 45 | M22 | T25 | No Kids
Nov 09 W Filed | Dec 09 Separation
Mar 17 2010 Divorce Papers Signed | Divorce Hearing Cancelled
Moved back home May 2010
PA Confirmed June 2010 | W left Dec 7 2010