How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

I spoke to OM and OM W at same time on speaker phone and he said as stated above. Also as I mentioned my wife left this morning and decided she would sign up for her own mobile service and now she will not share with me that mobile number (senseless).

Throughout this whole situation I have remained in contact with my friend from their work and from his observations he said it was nothing more than a friendship. My friend asked around and others said the same thing. OMW has two brothers that work in same facility and they too asked around and got same response "Yeah they are buddy buddy but I don't think anything is going on."

My friend said they just talk, she is not "clingy" toward him, they just talk a lot. He nor anyone else there seen any of the two initiate physical contact such as a hug or even a pat on the back.

OMW has told me she will hunt my wife down and beat the crap out of her for a lack of other terms.

It is now that much harder that she now has separate phone line.

How do you talk to someone and try to make it work when in the person's mind the marriage is over?