mb28, guess what... your affair busting is working.. keep it up
It HURTS LIKE HELL doens't it?
It's ok... its just emotional growth... its your love for your husband pushing through to the surface again.. it hurts, but you will feel love for him like you never did before believe me.
Ignore his texts.
Put your ring on.
Keep doing what you're doing... keep u pthe mantra.. I want my marriage and my family.
Keep holding firm, no arguing, no crying, no pursuing.... its bringing him back... he WANTS to BAIT you into a fight so HE can file... dont' let him trick you.. its a Trap... ok?
Fake it until it feels good.. that's what we all do, it takes several weeks of it, but it eventually isnt' fake anymore.
Ignore all his texts... just keep going about your business.. get giong on that family therapist... don't wait til he ASKS you for an appointment with a good one to start looking, look now so no time is wasted later...
When he wants to see a FT finally... you will need to have one ready on hand to get him in there... do a few sessions on your own first to make sure you are sending him to a good FT...
