help with a plan

[flowmom]

IDU, I've been in a low for the past few days too, so I know how that is.

Have you read How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It: Finding Love Beyond Words? It's a really useful book that talks about gender differences in communication. Most men really don't get women and how they communicate, and vice versa. Reading this book will help you to understand some of the circumstances that contributed to your sitch, and give you ideas about how to manage communication with your W, even in this difficult time.

Sorry if I've already recommended this to you.