1. Do NOT believe they will stop communicating. 2. IGNORE what your wife is saying right now. she has an addiction 3. IGNORE yoru wife's THEATS 4. IGNORE yoru wife's TANTRUMS 5. Do NOT ARGUE with your wife right now... just sidestep it like you would sidestep arguing with a child... you don't argue with your kids, you set a boundary and END the convo. 6. Keep in VERY CLOSE contact with OM W right now... tell her you WANT her to keep you FULLY informed and that you would do the same for her 7. This OM has been sneaking around with your WIFE, do NOT TRUST HIM... 8. You are combatting this well so far, exposure and collecting intel, as well as confronting OM and contacting OMW, excellent work! 9. Keep in touch with OMW, send her some flowers an an apology on behalf of your wife. 10. I do NOT believe its not physical at this point. Do NOT trust OM ... he's playing you. 11. Your wife is just throwing a fit because you ruined her FUN... do NOT cave... stand up for yourself and just hold fast... do NOT argue with her.. she will BAIT you into a fight... do NOT fight her... 12. Visit OMW's place and get to know her. Make sure you text OM to give him a heads up... make GOOD friends with this woman, she's going to be your intel here...
If OMW tells you OM is gone out, and your wife is gone out... guess what?
You need to share a LOTt of info wih OMW, keep in close touch with her... be VERY NICe to her, she's going to save your marriage...
