talia and everyone else...i SO appreciate that you all want to look out for me and want only the best advice to come through on my (and anyone else's!) thread! i can't tell you how great it feels to have so many people i've never even met looking out for me and standing behind me! i wouldn't say OTM has offered me any bad advice, because it's all been genuine and from his heart - whether or not it followed MWD's outline or not. but like blownaway said, how i use the advice is up to me. and like someone said to me on my thread before (i'm sorry i don't remember who!), we all take the advice we get here and tailor it to suit our own situations and needs. i appreciate ALL the advice i get here, even the advice i don't take.

so keep the advice coming, and thanks to everyone who came over from talia's thread to offer their two cents! smile

Me30 H29
M2.5 T5
H moved out 1/23/2010
H wants signed agreement 3/30/2010
...feeling hopeless