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Bet you bought lost your lunch when the mediator threw that number out. Mediation is a good route to go. Glad you and your W were able to sit down and make the best out of a very stressful situation.

I hadn't eaten all day before the meeting so it would have been dry heaves.

I'm starting to get the feeling that the mediator is sympathizing with my XW position. Over the last couple of sessions he seems to be attempting to make a case for her on key issues. If he continues to display the Knight in Shining armor behavior I will call him on it. He is suppose to be neutral.

Lets review. W cheats on H, W loses job, W files, W cashes out 401k, W leases new car, W rubs A in H face, W moves out, did I mention W is unemployed, W cashes out IRA and W is entitled to support to the tune of $2,300.00/month from H.

That seems reasonable!

I should probably reserve this energy for later if the W decides to ask for the dough but I'm practicing.


M48/W47
M15/T22
S3
D3
In House Separation 10/06/09
W files for D 10/16/09
OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA)
OM2 in mix early Jan.
W moved out 1/26/10
In Mediation (Settlement in prep)