I have been contemplating an anwer but what does MWD mean, couldn't find that one in the abbreviation area.

Walls...I think my wife is erecting barbed wire fence between her side of the bed and mine as we speak...:)

TBL now equals "Toward Better Love"
M-44 W-42; 2 kids; married 11 years
1st bomb 10-08, reconcile 12-08
2nd bomb 8-09, moving toward reconcile 3-7-10