This is truly pathetic. Your H is an irresponsible 18 year-old boy masquerading around in a 31 year-olds body. He is simply a self-centered fool at this point. No job AND no time for his child = biggest loser in my book. I wouldn't ask him again. Let him get his act together and come to you if and when he wants to get back into your son's life. I feel so bad for your little boy.
