"[censored] you! You lying [censored] [censored] [censored]. I want a [censored] divorce. I couldn't trust you if God himself told me too. May you rot in hell."
See now...
That would push her away from you.
Just an example.
So your words DO have effect...just usually in a BAD way.
Quote:
I've been trying to think of my life, trying to let go of the things I have lost.
then she said, "so is that what I should do too?"... by now she has taken control of the tone of the conversation. I say, "uuh yea... probably".
so she says, "ok... thanks for clarifying".
Ever watch a movie again and secretly hoped the ending magically changed?
I think you gave her the wrong impression.
And not sure where you stand with her to tell her that.
A simple text message.
"I did not mean to imply I have given up on us. Just on the things I cannot or should not control."
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
