Yes. You are in trouble. That mediator did not do you a favor. It's going to be very hard to turn down $2,300 a month. I agree with CTH, you should have slugged the mediator in the gut before he had a chance to calculate that number...That's insane!!
Tell me about it. I was fuming but couldn't do anything about it. Now I am in nailing biting mode. My XW best friend of the last year who I refer to as Matrimonial Cancer will be all over her to bleed me. I gotta believe I'm going to get hit below the belt before this all said and done.
My XW has a job interview next week and I pray to God she lands the gig, this would hopefully take her mind off that number. But if there is still a disparity between our incomes (which is almost certain) I would still be on the hook for something.
M48/W47 M15/T22 S3 D3 In House Separation 10/06/09 W files for D 10/16/09 OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA) OM2 in mix early Jan. W moved out 1/26/10 In Mediation (Settlement in prep)