Wife in love with another man, I need help

[Jonpen]

ok, what is GALing? I have the surviving an affair book. I took my ring off recently as well. Part of me wants to save the marriage and another part of me don't. It takes 2 people to work on a marriage and all she wants is a divorce. like I said, I have been going on with my friends, ignoring her and moving on with my life without her. I want my old wife back not the person she has become now. I could not love the person she is now.

So you think I should keep going out with friends, having a good time and moving on with my life? like I said i am never mean to her or argue with her I just don't talk to her. she tries to talk to me but I keep my words as short as possible.