Acceptable contact while GD?

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I read through your entire post and it sounds like you are getting stronger through this, well done. I am working on that also. I have a different post going on another issue, but similar facts to yours.

I wanted to read up on some thoughts of this no contact ie. let her pursue you angle, and you have had some really good answers posted here. I am working on that.

But to toss you some advice your email to her is too whiny (as I work on eliminating my whininess).

Take out the $100 rent part, keep it professional.

"As you are aware your monthly set expenses are substanitally less than mine from a housing standpoint. I believe it to be equitable that while I am covering most of the expenses related to this residence, that you continue to contribute to the utilties".