I have never stopped being shocked by the number of "band aid" relationships that crop up. Sorry guys, but seems to happen more with men.

If you can't feel good about yourself then how in the world would you be any good in another relationship? Now if he is thinking of moving your focus off of ex and her antics and explore the possiblities of a relationship in that sense, I can see it. You focus so much on what she is doing or has done that it doesn't leave much time for you as an individual.

I do think you need to get the focus back to that and see where it takes you.

hugs, kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory