I guess I missed the part Gnosis about the author of that book being an adultress too. "Selfish, self-indulgent slut who flippantly disregarded her vows" - that's a good way to put it. So in a way then it seems like the author wrote that book in one big attempt to justify what she did and suppress her own guilt?!

Yeah, if that is what my W is like I don't want to live like that. There's someone out there for me that will truly love me and be loyal to me.


Me-32
W-29
No kids
ILYBNILWY 11.20.09
Separated 01.10.10
Discovered EA 01.13.10
W admitted to PA 02.21.10
I filed for D 03.09.10