This was rude. I hope you apologize for this post. Very poor taste.
I posted this in T's thread but will post it here as well
Talia there is no such thing as bad advice here. We all post advice. Its up to the individual to determine what course they wish to follow. Some of it we agree with. Some we do not.
This is a good chance for you to practice some of that DB stuff with OTM.
Validate and move on.
Both of you have your hearts in the right place.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!